If you want to talk logic, the logical fallacy you're committing is called false equivalency.
To continue your weird hockey metaphore: It's more like if the Pittsburgh Penguins went up against a team that couldn't afford skates (or in this case headsets, playtime, a lifestyle that lets your punk ass sit around on destiny all day with your crew)
That team is just looking for a pickup game with the kids down the street. Not a nationally televised NHL match. They still want to play hockey, because hockey is fun. But it's not fun at all if you're handicapped by forces outside of your control.
Calling a full fireteam with voice chat, comforability, and knowledge of eachothers playstyle "the normal way" really betrays you're privilege.