also incel means wanting a romantic relationship and being unable to get one, nothing else.

Btw since i forgot to specifically spell it out before Incel mean Involuntarily celibate. Meaning involuntarily lacking sexual activity lack of relationships being originally a part of it for sure. However toxic trolls, extremists, and domestic terrorist types who have adopted the term specifically use it as a means to proclaim personal victimhood over failures therein and blame women for why their lives suck. You can not in any way shape or form get away from that fact and what the word incel means now and who it is associated with.

Which being said, the person who originated the term, and used it in assorted platforms has made a specific case about how she is shocked and disgusted by the term being turned form something used to bring lonely people together for support to a means by which other propagate hate towards women and ultimately violence.

to quote her: “I feel like I did something important, for the good of the world – that then turned out to be a weapon as well.”