"he feels like his daughter has been kidnapped" well that's because from his POV his daughter has been indeed kidnapped, some people took his daughter away and lied to him telling him to sign some papers and leave so he can get her back, but he doesn't, doesn't even know when or where or if he'll see her again.

"she feels abandoned and her parents left her on purpose" Imagine you were 5 years old, separated from your parents and don't know when you'll see them again, you're in a camp with other children, being put on a bus in the middle of the night and driven to an unknown place. I can't even believe the trauma this is causing the children and their parents.

This is why some countries find it laughable to get human right lessons from America, even if they're right.