being told that you can’t do what your body is literally made to do to was devastating.

What? Your body evolved to do a lot of things you may or may not end up doing or even wanting to do. It's not like your body was intentionally made by some higher power for this purpose (and if it was wouldn't that be horrible and in fact an individual should feel glad for not having to go through such predicament)?

Also, the body isn't even well evolved to do it,it can get very fucked up in the process.

Of course everyone feels differently but I just find it weird that this would be devastating to you in the context and I have a hard time relating this to some general female purpose. it sounds a bit gross