INFJ bosses?

I wouldn't think about this in terms of MBTI personally. This sounds like more general stuff that happens. It's highly unlikely all of these people are INFJs but I think you're on to something that you are clashing with some of these folks for the reasons you named

RBF can be a problem, even though you don't mean anything by it. Use a mirror and try to see how you can work on that when you are directly facing people. One thing I learned is that keeping your eyes wide and sort of lifted can help alleviate it, and make people think you like them.

I think it would be really helpful for you to tell your immediate boss what you wrote here. That you would appreciate direct criticism when something is displeasing them and that you need him to be very direct with you in general.

You sound like you actually have a very high awareness of what is going on here which is admirable.

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