INFJ Broke My Heart.

In my experience, hate to say this, I shoulda known, this is to be expected with them. I was foolish enough to think that she would treat me differently as we had A LOT of history. and I always had the in on all her onion layers before anyone else. (Together for 2 years, friends for 17 years)

To cut a long story short, she shamelessly built me up and got me to leave my wife and kids, delete facebook (they wont let me back), alienate my entire rural community so i could accommodate her judgementalism into our new "destiny" life, then take a few months, while i am exceptionally vulnerable having acted on a bold vision, to break me down into a million pieces, destroy me, loose my identity, assassinate my cherished personal perspectives and things that made me sane, functional and happy and kind. Absolutely crushed me and then dumped me coldly 8 months later with EVERYTHING utterly in tatters. Out of the frying pan, into the fire. Of course there is much to the story that you are questioning right now, i have the answers, but the net result is that involving myself with her is the most colossally stupid thing i ever did, all for that oh so misguided magic. There are a few silver linings of course. Cheers. Sirens they are. I do love her. I know for a fact she loves me too and she dreams about us as much as I do but her insecurities are totally punitive to anything. "For every hope, there a nope" The trial of it has been profound and very very damaging. Its going to take a lot to grow out of it. Main benefit that my children never met her or heard about that. As fucking nuts as it is, I think well get back together and Ill do it all again. What a doofus.

Backstory: Mother of children pussy trapped me and of course I tied to make it all good and commit to her but suffered entp depression.

Look after yourselves ENTP's and keep a little guard to your infj's. They will cut you the fuck down.

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