I (INFJ female) have a male ENTP friend. I’m feeling insecure after we had an intense conversation – how best to resolve this with him?

so we usually do see each other regularly in person - about once a week or so.

I also leave people on read, but never when they’ve asked a question (as it requires a response). And certainly not if our last conversation was a hard one to have.

It feels selfish to me - like he is so fixated on himself in this situation (needing to take time to process emotions etc) and not at all considering how I would feel that he keeps leaving me on read and not getting back to me.

It’s not like I want us to keep rehashing this issue or have some big emotional blood-letting - I just want to hang out with him like I normally do - watch movies, talk shit, try new food places. Him not responding is making me feel like he doesn’t want to do those things anymore either.

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