Saying no to sex never works

I'm sorry you had to experience this. Remember it is okay to be a bad guy. Sometimes people of this kind cannot take no for an answer. They will keep pushing you, will manipulate you and finally they gaslight you making you believe something's wrong with you or you're the bad one. All these labels are pure gaslighting. Everytime you fall for that trap, it affects your self esteem. Also never doubt yourself when your boundaries are being violated. It's their problem and not yours. Be strong, be bold and be confident. And any kind of relationship with people who don't respect your boundary is not worth it. So stand for yourself. Never give in for these kind of silly dramas. When the drama is getting out of your hand, just show them what a 'bad girl' really does ;)

And please remember there are good and matured guys out there. And I really hope you get to meet such a person. Good luck.

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