3. The insanity

The insanity

Thank God you snapped out of it and we're proud of you! So so so so proud!

Wtf is it with ngmas and pedophiles?! Mine served me on a platter to mine and now 35 years old, still mentions mine in a loving light every single time I'm around her or on the phone with her. Even if it's a two minute convo she'll find a way to mention him endearingly. It's so gross.

Also guilts me as if I'm too unforgiving when I tell her it's fucked up and I'm not evil for being smart enough to not mingle with someone who hurt me that badly. She seriously gives away her pain meds to one of them. It's infuriating.

I really don't understand it nor want to. I'm really sorry you deal with this, too. If my child hurt his children in that way, I'd do everything necessary to protect my loved ones and make sure they were banished from society and that society was informed of the danger they pose. I sure as fuck wouldn't justify it and further victimize my grandchildren.

It's absolutely bonkers.

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