In my opinion, yes. It is. But it is possible to find and I would go so far as to encourage people to never settle for anything less. I am a deeply sexual person that has always delighted in the concept of flirtation and affection, but 99% of those I've engaged in it with have bored me to absolute tears. There has only been one man that has continually titillated me to my very core. It's going on 15+ years now and the chemistry between us has only deepened and become more rich. Why suffer through lackluster chemistry? I implore you: don't settle for a so-so connection. This man can shuffle a pile of papers on his desk and I feel butterflies in places I didn't even know existed. I wouldn't trade it for the world and it's something that I passionately believe everyone deserves to experience. Tingly feelings "sometimes" doesn't cut it for me.