Not all girls are girly girls and you don't have to be one either. Relax. Do what feels natural. It takes time to find yourself when you've spent most of your life pretending to be something else. You't don;t have to be what someone else thinks you do and you don't need to feel bad about it.

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Unfortunately we can't control much about what HRT gives us, it's a genetic roll of the dice. If you're going to get big cheeks and thick thighs, that's just that. What you CAN do is shape what you get with dieting and exercise. Being thinner will slim both of them down, and you can do that. Building muscle will change their shape if you want them to look different.

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Take your femininity and your body and make those bitches your own. Do what feels good to you. Nothing else matters.