The love of my life was INTP. There was great chemistry but oddly enough, it was also lacking in chemistry. It was a contradiction. Like, we would always talk about everything else but us. I personally was very frustrated with his lack of exactness and never taking action. It was as if everything was only hypothetical for this guy, which is what ruined our relationship in the end. My need for action and ACTUALLY doing what we are talking about was never met. It is a very odd feeling. Knowing someone loves you but also feeling like they don't love you at all because their actions don't back it up. I would say it is a hard combo. I do much better with Judging types. I think that's the number one thing that is a must for me. I can't just sit and hypothesise about life and never do anything about it. Sorry, don't mean to be rude here or insult Perceivers, but it's just how they make me feel. This lack of initiative is killing me. To me, this INTP guy was like "Yeah, of course. We will do it...one day...maybe in another life...on another planet...but I still love you" Just no.