INTP Male seeking advice for courting INTJ Female

I think my advice is far more authentic then yours for the sake of the reason that I'm currently with an INTP whom I definitely want to have a future with.

Sincerely though OP, I was in a situation of choosing between my INTP partner and an INTJ, and hands down didn't regret my decision. I love this man over anything else in this world. If he really didn't break my shell I honestly would be so lost in life right now. He and I are going to hit our 1 year anniversary soon which we will celebrate.

I was very whatever with the relationship I had with my INTP, then I later realized how amazing he is. I stopped being the distant INTJ I was and our relationship grew. It will take her time, but keep at it. Let her know how much you care about her, how you'd want to be serious with her. The day my INTP said these things to me I broke down, and cried because I honestly didn't feel like I deserved love, until he really came out forward, comforted me, and open his heart to me.

I love my INTP partner so much. I plan to be with him for the rest of my life. I honestly don't know why I got downvoted, but if others want to be salty because they haven't experience what I have. Then I'll say, go with what you think is best :-) and good luck.

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