Hey, it makes total sense you reacted the way you did, especially with all the trauma surrounding it. As a fellow autistic gal, with sexual trauma, has been cancelled and former synchro swimmer!, don't beat yourself up about it. If you want to virtue signal to these people that are policing you for no reason other than having nothing better to do with their lives, you could change it to "designed by a woman, for fellow vagina havers" or something you know. But fuckit dude! It's your business and you did it! There's always going to people that shit on you. They generally don't care if you apologize. When I got canceled I apologized with my face blurred out on a local news station, no one gave a fuck! Good on you.