" psychologist or something? " no I'm a med student, but that's beside the point. " what makes you think that?" Most articles I've read on the theme, from the fact submissive men have more erectile problems and higher chance of dementia, to the fact most fem"dom" relationships failed more often (and uglier) than others, it's "politically incorrect" to say this, but women simply aren't psychologically made for this type of relationship. yes you can somehow keep one (if you are willing to overlook or fail to notice how she completely messes/fails the role of a dom) but you will either end up breaking up or dissapointed. And why are you here? just passing.