It might be my own interpretation of your post, but it seems you see it as a generally negative and jaded/bitter group of dudes trying to scheme girls. And that's true to a degree, especially a lot of the shit-posts that show up daily (I'm just a lurker, but it seems IMO to be newbies venting their anger/frustration).

I think it's unfair to make a judgement based off that, though. You take the new and most emotionally-charged voices of any group, be that social, political, religious, etc., you're going to get a lot of crap. But IMO there's so much truth and beneficial advice found when you read some of the high-quality material, and even in the comment sections of the shit posts, that people can definitely learn something positive if they stay logical and open-minded.

Maybe saying I disagree with you was wrong, I'm not sure I do now. But I don't think it's fair to focus on the negative so much (and the whole man-woman aspect), there's so much more to be found. It preaches self-improvement, self-respect, development and growth, maturity, expansion of thought and questioning of the status quo.

Anyway, I rambling. You make good points, and I hope I was at least somewhat clear on mine.