I've [22M] been on 3 dates with a [21F] and we've kept in touch after that but I'm a bit pessimistic about where this is going.

She's great, interesting, I enjoyed spending time with her. I should have worded it better but we do have some common interests but it's just that they aren't topics that we always talk about.

I don't know how to pinpoint it, but she enjoys my humor, and the references I make to shows we like, and I guess we just have some common stuff about ourselves. However, when we had a conversation about how I'm into Space, Science, History, Humanities, etc, she says we're like polar opposites as a joke.

To her that may be a joke, but to me I felt like it may cause her to get bored of me. Everything's fine with the relationship and I like her when we're together, but we haven't seen each other In a while and so most of this anxiety I started having about her was through what she told me when I called her.

I just can't stand the fact that she told me she's a party girl and gets really "bad". That just tells me she just likes to get drunk and fuck multiple guys.

She rarely asks me what's up with me, the conversation is usually just her talking about her life.

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