I've been a nanny for 15+ years and have had an intimate view of over 100 families. 98% are NOT happy.

I’ll be downvoted to oblivion, but this post is hilarious. 25% of moms regret their kids? Has every mother been polled? Lol. Also, the families you worked with all have one thing in common.. they used a nanny. So you can only actually say “some families who use a nanny to care for their children are unhappy. “

Parenting can absolutely be stressful - but there are those of us who do it well and are happy as hell, still travel, still do what makes us happy, all while still spending 90% of our time with our kids. Just went to two different countries this winter (without my kids) with my husband and we are far from well off. It makes me so sad to see these posts of people trying to defend being CF SO hard. Just be CF. It’s like you’re all obsessed with having to prove that your decision is right.

Ridiculous.

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