My first boyfriend, after taking my virginity, told me the 3rd time we had sex that if I didn't orgasm that he would break up with me. "Sexual chemistry is too important". So i lied. Literally my first real relationship ever- i didn't want to get dumped by this guy who said he loved me. I was too immature and young to see that this (and hundreds of other behaviors he had) were super toxic. It took a lot of courage to disclose that to the next guy. The guys i was with after him were super understanding, and put in the teeniest amount of more effort to make it possible for me. My fiance has been really encouraging and NEVER makes me feel bad. I'm so glad your partner is understanding. ❤