I've lent my BF of 1.5 years over 5k and have gotten nothing back

For a little background My boyfriend is 32 and i'm a 20 year old female. I now this seems bad but when I met him he was the manager of a company I previously worked at and he was pretty well off financially.

I mean if this guy is so successful and has his shit together, why would he date a 20 year old? Sure, you're hot and you might be mature for your age.... but c'mon.

he quit his job out of frustration which left him unemployed for a few months. That's when his borrowing started. We basically blew through the few thousand I had saved up until he found a new job a month later.

You won't get that money back. Sure, you can go through a lawyer, but then again, will it be worth it for you?

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