Ivy league educated and against race mixing. "I'm smarter than you 100 fold!" - Peer into insanity and hate disguised as intelligence!

The mold of what - that all Asian women who fall for white guys are whores and white men are colonizing their bodies or something? I mean, I know some guys - and gals - who are hapa and some feel like they have identity issues but I don't get the feeling your particular exact brand of hurt is as common as all that...

I dunno, dude. I get that you are confused or upset about your identity but a lot of people have issues like that. Lots of people have no identity as far as heritage goes - they don't know where they are from, etc. And then there are people confused about sexuality or even their gender.

And you are kind of at the top of the food chain, right? You are rich and well educated you say - what exactly are you lacking in resources to resolve some of your issues? I mean - there is probably some Asian therapist out there who can relate to at least some of it.

You have the internet but so far seem to use it to vent and antagonize people - that is not going to do you any good and it won't do other guys in your situation any good. I mean, if the things you seem to be upset about are true, then you aren't really being a very effective agent for change. No one is going to listen if all you do is get mad and be abusive.

I mean - going back to your Ferguson analogy, those particular people have a clear agenda. I mean the coherent ones, not the rioters and looters. They want a certain set of things to be different.

What is it you want and how do you really think that thing is going to be effectively served given your abilities and resources? You cannot really believe that if you are this well educated and endowed with financial wherewithal and you care about this thing that you are serving your cause very well by getting in altercations on reddit, can you?

And I do think a lot of this is super personal to you and your immediate family and perhaps not just some abstract issue. Not every AF/WM couple has a son that is as angry as you are about it. This isn't to say you don't have good reason to have anger but maybe it's misplaced somewhat.

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