January 19, 2019 | Ranting Saturdays

3 1/2 months away from the date and in the last week or so I’ve been getting hit hard by the wedding jitters. Which is super fucking stupid because I’m really happy in my relationship, and we’ve been living together for over two years now, have a joint bank account, bought a car together etc. so I don’t anticipate many practical changes resulting from our marriage becoming legally official.

Like, at first I blamed the feelings on wedding planning stress, and stressed about wedding day logistics and a couple wildcard family members. And that’s definitely part of it. But I finally had to admit that yes, even though I couldn’t be happier about it, I’m actually really nervous about getting married in 105 days

I’ve been assured by people I know know what they’re talking about that this is really normal. So I’m not worried about my feelings, but I am VERY pissed off that I feel them and annoyed with myself about it. Anyone else experience this?

/r/wedding Thread