Jealous of couples that don't look perfect

Graying balding dad bod here. I'm working on the last one (down 10lb in the last week and a half!), but I'm pretty sure shaving it all off is the only thing that will fix the first couple, and I'm quite certain I'd discover I have a weird shaped head if I tried :D

Took me longer to get a relationship started due to those things, but once you make a connection, they become a much lesser issue - the biggest thing is finding someone with whom you share common values. Neither I nor my GF are perfect, but I love her just the way she is - when she wants to improve herself for her own sake I fully support her, but make sure to let her know that she doesn't need to do it for me. If fitness is a value for you, so be it - you need to find someone who's fit for them to fit into your life. Just realize that not everyone has the same values, and they are looking for someone who fits their own values, not yours! Best of luck finding your person! :D

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