I'm prepared for downvotes but this is just how I see it. Angelina ruined her own wedding. not MTV, not the girls, Angelina. here is why I think this.

MTV sucks for instigating the girls to make that speech true. But MTV caught Angelina RED HANDED with that small clip from a few weeks ago where she said she WANTED the best man speech to be raunchy and call her out. so that is exactly what the girls thought she would be okay with. then Angelina says "let's go outside and flip out". WTF?? that is planned drama if I can smell it! then for her ENTIRE WEDDING (you only get one if you're lucky) she makes a drama because she needs the attention. Angelina has always been exactly who she was in the OG seasons, but in JSFV she learned how to control herself and her own narrative. This was all for TV and you can see that with how genuinely upset Jenni and Snooki seem to be. (This does not excuse their other mean girl behavior). Angelina loses friends left and right, she did all of this on purpose and she ruined her own day by not dealing with it off camera after the wedding. That's why none of the guys are defending her because they see right through her actions. I think unfortunately Angelina played all of us like a fiddle and got us to feel so sorry for her when it was clear as day she didn't handle this like a grown woman.

Also I think many people don't agree with me but Deena going around and making friends with everyone was very mature and sweet. It showed the old Deena and how she can turn things into a positive very quickly.