That was my experience, too, and the reason I only lasted one day. Literally no one bothered to read what I was looking for. So many not even remotely suitable men replied. It felt like endless attack of hyenas on a wounded gazelle.
I had accidentally set an innocent flirty pic of my shoulder and lacy bra on “private” and I guess a bunch of men paid to see it, and after the first wave of “fresh meat” responders, I also got a wave of grumpy messages from men who were mad they paid and didn’t see nudity, I guess. Hurried to correct it, but I’m not sure AM ever did update the change. Their system is hard to understand and painfully slow with updates.
It was easier to delete my account and run.