The job center simply do not want me to get a job....

Yeah I thought you'd come back with that obvious attempt.

Complete misdirection of course - I am deleting my posts because I don't want a third party (the govt) to track me which is a completely different use case to someone who would get angry online but would never act this way in real life.

No "we" cannot see my original post. Does that matter? Not at all, I don't give a crap about whether others here like me or dislike me, or what their judgement is. You are the one playing to the audience in your tactics not me.

I am talking directly to you - as a person, as a human being and asking you - Why are you being so damn hostile? What is your problem?

if you want to move it to PM's i would happily do so. It has nothign to so with my public reddit post.

You seem so convinced that I think I am superior, when I think nothing of the sort, except that I have better manners and calm, but that should really be evident to you given that I have not called you names or sworn at you.

have you noticed the difference in our behaviour? Do you really think its ok to tell people to fuck off just because you don't want to take the time to understand what they are saying?

Do you tell people to fuck off regularly? in real life? how does that go down?

But seriously though, why tell me to fuck off repeatedly? Are you trying to bother me, or get revenge on me because you think I am somehow getting one over you for calling you out on being a rude person? Are you embarrassed at your own behaviour, and so are trying to blame me for it, so you don't have to admit that maybe... just maybe.. you lost it and are being abusive to a fellow human being for no good reason at all, and you don't want to face that dark side of yourself, you can't handle criticism so just like Donald Trump, when someone else points out your flaws... you have to push it elsewhere rather than try and improve yourself?

Are you a massive naricissist? I don't know, perhaps if you answered some of my questions, or made a good faith effort to reply fairly and without the abuse we could get to know each other better, and we could figure out why you are being so nasty to me.

I don't say any of these things to look down on you by the way, just to try and understand where your anger comes from.

because i think there is part of you that does want to engage with me, that recognises that actually you are being a bit mean and you feel guilty about that maybe.

I mean sure the part of you that wants to blame me for your abusive behaviour wins the fight in your head...

But if you actually just wanted me to fuck off, you would have clicked the block button at the bottom of my replies several posts back.

no instead you keep replying, trying to justify yourself.

I'd like you to say sorry for being so rude to me, and i'd like an explanation for why you thought it was ok, and a bit of reflection on what you might do to avoid it in the future.

I am sure that seems patronising, who is this random stranger who thinks I owe him an apology what an arrogant prick... or something...

But here is the thing, I am not asking anything unreasonable between two human beings.

You have said some horrid things to me, you have hurt me, and you have made me feel bad. Asking for an apology I think is not arrogance, but is well within normal civil moral behaviour.

Are you man enough to own your rudeness, realise it was unfair and apologise? Or are you going to double down on it, and once again hurting me further and hurting yourself too?

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