It should be worth noting that you're not marrying the whole population of women, you have a statistically high chance of marrying a woman who overlaps with the average woman (i.e. the woman with the most popular traits when controlled for population size) but you're not still guaranteed to meet her.
The woman you'd marry is an individual with traits that you get to chooose for, and so while you might have a hard time finding one you can trust, they are probably out there and all that's keeping you from them is your outlook.
Think about that. You're mistrusting the entire gender based on a population average picture when in reality you'll be interacting with the different samples that make the variation among women possible.
I understand this mistrust but I also showed JP to my gf and she likes him quite a bit. We even had a discussion about gender the other day and we agree on a lot of points. I think you shouldn't let the ideology of MGTOW get to you because there are really great women out there.