Things can get pretty messy with accusations thrown around based on rumors and third party story's when you allow speaking out to not be based on the victim or their family speaking out but people who are judging a situation from the outside. Makes it too easy to slander someone without basis then say "sorry I didn't know I heard it from my friend" while others get abuse online and can cause who they perceive to be a victim to be FORCED to make a statement to correct the situation.

There is nothing worse then other people judging your relationship from the OUTSIDE thinking theres something wrong with it without knowuing whats going on i the relationship.