Wow.

Dangerously advising (most likely vulnerable) women that its okay for men to judge them by their sexual ideals? Especially, if all they have done is exactly the same as the man they are with!?!?

Im sure that any self-assured, happy woman already knows that sex doesnt equal forever and thats not the reason that they have sex with most men. And im also sure that a confident woman would never settle a man that didnt love them for exactly who they are, whether that meant fucking on the 1st date or 10th date. A strong indpendent man loves a strong indpendent woman, and vice versa. Neither being so insecure that they cant get past the fact that their partner is a sexual being. Like every other person on the planet.

Women (and Men) should be respectful to one another, kind and understanding without judgements. Sometimes we just meet people we like, who like us back and if we're both on the same page, we just want to have sex. For fun. The person we want to settle down with will come along when the time is right and they'll love you for who you are. You might even fuck them on the first night. As long as you both know what you want then who cares?

If someone doesnt want to be with you for that then thank your lucky stars that they showed their double standards right at the beginning. They clearly wouldn't deserve you anyway.

I find this post entirely upsetting. Judgment of any kind is not okay. Be safe, be respectful, be happy.