We just cried together and still no solution

I think he is a 36 year old father of 3, who sounds like a very decent man, able to provide for you and his family physically and emotionally. He is capable of deciding for himself whether he can compromise on having another child because he loves his soulmate. You are not responsible for his decision. Yes, ideally he’d be enthusiastic about it, but this is real life, real relationships, and people make compromises for the people they love all the time

Find out if he doesn’t want another child more than he doesn’t want to end things with you. It’s really as simple as that. If he’s mentioned being willing to have a child more than a few times, he’s already able to picture it. And forget what his family wants. This doesn’t involve them. Most children are unhappy when their parents have children with new partners. They’ll live

And whoever said you’ll find another soulmate, well, I think it’s extremely rare for people to find two soulmates in a lifetime. Most people don’t even find one. Soulmates aren’t around every corner

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