I'm sorry, I typed this in a rush and missed loads of details.
So I'm 24 and she's 19, almost 20. I know she's definitely that age because we've spoken for 2 years. I've seen her birth certificate and I.d so I know she's not pretending.
As for long term plans, we have made some. To us, this is serious. We love each other. The plans we made include meeting up a few times next year, hopefully when the whole covid situation has died down a bit. We've talked for hours about the future and how we want to be together. I know that may seem a bit strong considering we've not met in person yet but I just know that she's the one for me.
Her parents don't know about me. If they did, she wouldn't be allowed to access the Internet at all. Her father doesn't want her talking to strangers because he believes she'll become "a whore" and other things that are just crazy. Thats why she doesn't have a mobile phone. The one she does have only had access to WiFi, no actual service for calls.
Right now, we're probably only going to be able to talk for an hour a day on discord whilst she does her school work (for university). And thats only if her parents aren't around her the whole time.
I appreciate the reply. Thank you for reaching out. Im just not sure what the next step is