I just googled what gaslighting is and I think my husband has been doing this to me our entire 10 year relationship, 5 being married.

Okay cool. I'm glad you see that in not asking to be rude just generally asking. I ask because my wife does that to me. She will be like you going to the store in like yeah I'll be back in 30. She will text me 4 minutes later if I don't respond fast enough she will video call to see where I'm at. And when I say what's up her first words "where you at" super annoying. Makes me feel like alittle kid. Or they just ask questions with this tone that is pretty much acussing with saying it. It's like your talking to a fucking detective. Unless you have physical evidence of him cheating please lighting up just alil (not you personally unless it applies..) guys hate that stuff when we find woman that allow us to roam alittle and do what you gotta do we treat then like gold. If he's working coming home every night be happy. Enjoy eachother. Just my opinion

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