I don’t know if I’m allowed to comment here, ban me if I am but the rules didn’t really have descriptions so I’m not sure what I can and can’t say. Your coworker sounds like a cunt, judging someone else’s body without thought is not someone you would want to be with obviously. I hate to sound cliche but honestly you are putting a lot of unwarranted pressure to be something that is an illusion. Yes women with larger breasts are seen as more feminine but you are a woman as well, you have feminine energy (as well as masculine like every human) and you are beautiful. You ARE divine, and you ARE perfect the way you are. This isn’t me fluffing your ego this is the truth from the bottom of my heart. So whatever a next man says or whatever the next woman has you carry your OWN feminine energy and beauty, no one and I mean no one can take that away from you. The vulnerability and courage in this post is a clear sign you are beautiful. I am sorry if I have said something that has offended you. Your post just came across really painful and I felt guilty. I am sorry that men and women do this but I will remain certain that you are perfect and if anyone thinks otherwise they can suck your dick (metaphorically) lol.