I have a daughter and a son out there, and two daughters not born, they were conceived in toxic environments when I think I was hoping for more. One, the daughter Coral, left the building on me 4yrs ago at product of conception citing the father wasn't ready (NOT WRONG, what truths revealed about him after that week was intense), another potential daughter came along about 7yrs ago via my sister's intuition when I was in another unhealthy partnership, I always thought it was funny she was called Mia, missing in action. I didn't physically feel her, I think she was showing up (visual was a cheribum) to share that having children is a cherished want, I had to leave that relationship and move on to better, took me 3 years to, landed in the situation that introduced me to Coral, I was in and out of it inside 3 months. For 6 yrs now I have embraced a most patient son, I know his name and this time I trust now who would Father a kid that keeps telling me he is Soloman. I think he will be my only born. I'm a one or none kind of person though but I have to say when Coral left, spirit said she'd be back with better timing so who knows really, it may mean there's a girl who wants to come along too but I haven't the slightest clue about her as it will be a new slate so some of me is 'I'll see it when I believe it" about her.

Anyways, the reason I'm sharing this

It's a strong, strong intuition for me but, some of me is convinced its just my imagination. I think I keep it that way or else I'd explode on the abortion debates because I don't want to in ANY way support a woman not being able to access the Healthcare she needs but if extremists got a hold of intuitive understanding and used one piece of my experience with the universe to prove pigeon holed beliefs I would be mortified. So on the off chance this is all just imagination, its strongest when I was not in healthy relationships.

Now that I am with a great partner, using an IUD, I still get intuitive eggs indeed but the spiritual grounding is more present to say no or not now, the little spirits are not personally attached, they get it and move along without hangups, and I don't get overwhelming visions of names, features, personalities, etc etc. Whereas yeah, in unhealthy relationships I really built a personal attachment because as I said at the top, 'hope' for better.

Best of luck, love the ones you have the best you can whatever that means. Maybe your wife would prefer the working role and you the traditional childcare role, or you with full custody or something. All the best