My husband tries.. I think... but I constantly feel alone. I get upset and feel so emotional and he says 'whats wrong with you' .... and like yea he asked and I should probably be able to blurt shit out but nothing about 'whats wrong with you' makes me want to open up. And then he wants to listen for 30 seconds, tell me how to fix it or that it isn't that bad, and move on. Like sometimes I just want to talk about shit. And politics and other current events is impossible because while he is willing to talk about it, most of his sources are conspiracy subs and shit and he ALWAYS plays devils advocate and it's just fucking exhausting. I'd rather not talk to him at all most times because our conversations are always so tense, I feel so much pressure, and with him always taking the other side it's hard to remember why we are even together... like do we have absolutely nothing in common? Oh yea.. we did.. when he was courting me.