The most unattractive thing to a woman is a self loathing man. If you are on Facebook publically putting yourself down and tagging yourself in stuff that for couples or something and tagging it like that’ll never be me . Then you will never get laid. If you have done that in the past delete your social media and start again fresh. You don’t have to have confidence. But you can’t act self loathing. Step 2 go on plenty of fish . Write out a big bull shit message . Copy it and send it to 10 girls. When one comes back you have your opening. Send a couple messages , make her laugh. Get her on the phone ASAP so you can stand out to others that she is messaging, during phone convo Make her laugh more. Go to hers and watch Netflix, bring snacks. Fuck her . That’s fool proof