I just want to be loved. Is that too much to ask?

Maybe you have a point, but looking through your profile and past comments you clearly have a lot of resentment for others. You're 26 but clearly you're angry about the things that I was angry when I was 15-16, I can imagine how you're probably even more resentful and have some deep seeded anger after going through college where people are expected to be promiscuous and have lots of casual sex.

Just some things from your past comments:

"lol, imagine coming to a sub of lonely guys and trying to punch down on them with your fEmiNiST tHeOry nonsense."

"Pop culture, the news media, and social activists (such as feminists) feed us the message that women are beautiful and worthy no matter what they look like. This luxury rarely (if ever) extends to men. "

you're

"Black

A socially-awkward potato

Into stereotypically "nerdy" things (e.g. anime, video games, horror movies and science fiction)

Depressed as hell

Extremely dweeby-looking"

I suffered from the exact same issues years ago, I'm not here to play the oppression olympics, but someone has to point out your double think to you.

On the one hand, you admit that you're not good looking, you're depressed, socially awkward and have hobbies that women won't consider sexy or masculine, in a sense, admitting that the problem lies within you and can be fixed. In the same breath, you claim its society's fault for not accepting all of these things, as if somehow it's women's or society's responsibility to be attracted to whatever every man is presenting.

The more I look at your message and your past comments to more I realise why you're trying to dismiss what I wrote there as invalid. I was literally you but younger a few years back, ugly, awkward, into anime and video games, depressed, no friends or family to speak to about the things that were bothering me.

Go back and read through your past comments yourself, you've never once acknowledged someone's success in escaping the trench as valid and always just made excuses for why they're an exception. Ask yourself why you do that.

I think that if you acknowledge that my experience getting out of this really dark place is valid and not just me being a "late bloomer" like every teenager, then that means that you'll have to acknowledge that you can get out of it too and you don't like that. You're comfortable complaining about the hopelessness of trying to get a relationship on Reddit, it is easy. If you have to acknowledge that people can in fact change their lives around then maybe you'll feel like you have to do the same and that's hard.

You said an hour ago that "I prefer reals over feels tbh". That's clearly a comfortable lie. I hope you come around and realise that your attitude is keeping you down.

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