This happens to me too, but usually the guys that do this are insanely creepy and almost seem like they are only doing it cause i am a foreigner. Once a guy (a stranger) straight up hugged me with both arms expected that to be something i would think was okay. (I of course reported it to the police)

The audacity of some of these gaijin hunters are insane, i have the impression that they think foreign women are «easy» so they are free to say and do whatever they want to them. I dont know what kind of guys you have met but i would be careful. Ive had lots of people be nice at first but then they immidiently show that they just wanted one thing.

Please stay safe and be careful when giving your information out