It took me a year. 8 Reddit accounts, two snap accounts, Tinder, and countless others like Kik before I got it right.
It was two Reddit accounts ago that she reached out to me on an ad I put up. This woman is and will always be an amazing person both inside and out to me and basically set the bar high if I choose to start looking again for another AP.
Don’t sell yourself for cheap. You have something to offer, you just need to find out who you are and bring that to the table.
Most of the scammers are really easy to spot when you’re paying attention. Ignore them.
My key point is she reached out to me. Every time i reach out to people it never goes anywhere so I don’t very often as it is a waste of my time for me to do so. It didn’t work for me so I don’t.
There was a post about how there’s guys who feed off women here and manipulate them to get what they want. You aren’t going to out maneuver these people because they’ve spent a ton of time creating their persona and have gotten good at what they do. Unfortunately, by the time these women who concentrate on them figure it out it’s already too late to go back to the initial post and end up starting over from scratch.
Once you find something that works build off of it and soon enough you’ll find someone. You won’t get it right the first time but it’ll get easier.
When we started talking we laid it all out and we knew from the beginning what we were looking to get out of this. We set our boundaries and communicated like human beings. I provided what she needed and she provided me what she could.
Unfortunately for her her life is fucking her more than her husband was so she broke down and needed time to get herself together.
It’s weird in a break up seeing someone cry and wish that things were better in her life to be able to continue. It’s a feeling you miss when you don’t have it in your marriage.
What she gave me in hindsight was so much more than what I ever dreamed of. Some of it wasn’t what I actually thought I needed until she wasn’t telling me good morning any longer.
On that point. Remember that this is most likely not permanent. The unicorns you’re seeking Can leave just like that. You need to be prepared for it and you won’t be if you aren’t in a good position mentally yourself.