I just need to vent, SO finally stopped being an ass but I’ve already gone out and found an AP

For the women I've known who stepped out where they needed dominant while husband was submissive, it's always been a very very slow motion process.

In the end, one divorced and one opened her marriage. The woman who divorced has a husband who wanted to be spanked and that became the only thing he wanted after a while.

The other one was obsessed with pegging, so she told him to find a dominatrix or really anyone really into it. But you know what? Outside of this they work fine. Raising two kids as well.

Not sure if this helps but just know there are many marriages that work in unconventional ways, but in the end sexual cases of a mismatch tend to go on (and even intensify) without getting better.

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