Just started as a sugar baby. Anyone else have experience?

What do you mean by just started? Just signed up for Seeking arrangement or found someone that you've entered into an arrangement with?

Being upfront with what you want from it is important. If you need cash for rent because your a student don't enter into an arrangement with a guy who only wants to buy you designer clothing.

when you're meeting guys beware of the ones who dangle promises of future gifts and "don't want it to feel transactional." Being a sugar baby IMO/E is a variation of sex work. It's the girlfriend experience...Sites like seeking arrangement have gotten overcrowded by guys who don't get what it's about or who are looking for no strings attached sex without actually providing any of the benefits of an arrangement. I stopped because I finished school and started working but as it was I was getting worn down by what the site had turned into. There were a lot of younger hotter guys who were treating it like tinder and it's like if I wanted tinder I would be on that app no thank you I don't want to come over and uber myself home.

I had a very successful generous arrangement when I first got into it and when that ended and I tried to go back I found the pool of men had vastly changed. If you're willing to be seduced by potential future trips or shopping sprees don't be disappointed if they don't materialize.

Other than that, you need to cater to their schedule not the other way around. Don't expect them to be your boyfriend, text you all the time, drunk dial them etc. Respect their privacy. Use protection. Be safe, especially if you are travelling at all.

All that being said have fun

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