Just started watching this show...Russ and Paola

" I mean she flew thousands of miles to be with him and all they want to do is change her. I just feel like that is really wrong."

This basically happened to me too! It is a horrible feeling! The guy I dated pretended not to be religious in the beginning, and he knew I wasn't. Then, gradually, he would get pissy and miserable for things like I wouldn't wear long sleeves in the middle of the summer, and he started telling me I should dress more modest, coming up with new "suggestions" about how I should be every week. It's a disgusting feeling to have someone tell you these things, and it's emotional abuse. So I sympathize with Paola in this regard even though I am not a fan of hers. Partners shouldn't to force their partners to dress differently or change their approach to life.

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