You are right to feel annoyed or distraught but make sure you aren't too bothered by it and you don't fill up with hate. I can see how you would be mad when a Pashtun praises the military and dishonoures Pashtun figures like Bacha Khan. They see Pashtun culture as something they love, find exotic and belonging to them and their ancestors. However, they won't make sacrifices for it. They would never respect any Namak-Harams who are rightfully pissed off at Pakistan for yk. Or Pashtuns who complain about their treatment and their cultural Rights. Because I live in a city speaking Urdu, half-mixed and proud Pakistani; I don't see any problems so it must be propaganda.

But you should also not be hypocritical which I don't think you are. But you should always be willing to try and change the problems and to change ideals.