I really don't wanna be racist but I feel like that this mostly happens on american servers, since everyone speaks the same language. I play on a daily basis with my girlfriend and since release of the game, there were 2 situations where someone insulted her. (I play on european servers).

I think the toxicity really changes depending on the mode. And is especially more present in ranked than in any other mode.

Also seeing you play makes me think you are more on the lower end of ranks, where people are already 10 times more toxic than the higher ranks, and judging the scoreboard he is bottom fragging and that's why he's upset and tries to compensate his emotions, this sadly happens, Valorant is definitely not a socially friendly family game but this toxicity is not restricted to women only, if you're younger sounding you also get bullied, if you're playing not your best, you're getting bullied, valorant is a game with a highly competitive team concept that makes people with the most different behaviour type work together.

Next time you should just mute the person the second he starts talking shit, since this is gonna affect you psychological and makes you usually play worse, people like this usually have a bunch of serious emotional problems in real life.