Please read whole sentence.

I honestly don’t think there is anything wrong with emotional cheating as long as 1) you don’t act on it and 2) you’re honest with your current partner about it.

The way she said it was tactless, but that’s usually the reason why people subconsciously emotionally “cheat”.

And that’s why it’s important to go to your current partner and say “hey, I’m start to have feelings for so and so because he does watchamacallit and it makes me feel good about myself. I really don’t want to feel this way about him though, I want to be committed to you. Let’s figure out a way to cater to each other’s needs so we don’t start turning to other people.”