Look man hopefully you read this one. I was with a girl (36f) me (30m) for two and a half years. She had 3 kids and I had none. So I went into that relationship knowing this. But I still still agreed to be with her. We lived together for 2 years. She was amazing. She was caring, smart and and considerate to my needs and wants. I did my best to bond with the kids, I’m not gonna lie there were times where I wanted out. But I fell in love with her and her kids. She was everything I never knew I needed. My last relationship wouldn’t even come close to what I had with this women. We took trips like a family, spent Sunday at home with the kids. I really enjoyed being part of a family. But then it all came crashing down.

I found out she was texting other men and sending them pictures. I was crushed. I put all my effort into making her and her kids happy.

It’s been 6 months now since we broke up. All the way up to the 4th month, we would still keep in contact. I would tell her that I loved her and she would too. She would add that she needed time for me to mature. Yes I do agree, I’ve never had kids before so there where times where we would argue because she of the kids.

2 months ago I found out she is married. I don’t know know to whom nor do I care. I just hate myself for still holding on to hope. She played me. She used me for 4 months until she was better to find someone for her. I don’t miss her much. I just miss being part of a family. One girls broke might heart that night. But I lost four caring people that I would give the world too.