Why do you want to have kids?

Because life is about the relationships you build with people. On your death bed, you won’t remember the amount of money you made, the memories that make you smile aren’t the ones where you were working your ass off for your career. What will make you smile is the little things that the people you love most did that brought you joy. Or the love you felt from the people closest to you. It’s the experiences and memories you made with those people you love. Also, if I meet an amazing guy who loves me and treats me right, you best believe I’m going to have his kids. This is why I want to have kids. Also, it’s an opportunity for you to bring humans into this world and raise them to become good people to make this horrible world we live in a little bit more joyful and positive.

Complete side note: have you had the kids talk with your fiancé? Not being too enthused about the idea of having kids is something your fiancé should definitely know no matter how uncomfortable the conversation is. Good luck!

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