I Have a Kink That I Can't Find a Name To

I appreciate your insight. I probably should have explained a tad better.

The thing I'm uncertain about is the fundamental goal of cuckolding. From my knowledge, cuckolding is a powerplay kink in which a women going out with other individuals is done as a way to assert their power over their submissive. I'm not entirely sure if I'm into that. I do enjoy being dominated a whole lot, but I'm not sure using other people to boost their dominance over me is something I'd want. Them seeing other people is more granting them the chance to have experiences they've wanted or ones I cannot fulfill. I.e. she might really want sex, but our arrsngment is that I'm not allowed to have sex with her. So, she can seek that pleasure from someone else. There is no "he's better than you or your not good enough" aspect. Also, this gives her the chance to have a variety of experiences..... which I'll have to patiently wait to have for some years to come.

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