Knowingly Attractive Men of Reddit: When You Go About Your Day, Do You Notice People Noticing You?

I don't have a genetic silver spoon lmao, I'm a 5 who put in the work to make myself a 7-8.

That's way better than where my effort led, I got fit/fixed my clothing/started multiple hobbies/learning a new language/take care of myself and yet I'm still a 4/10.

There's this trap that typically neckbeards and losers get stuck into thinking, "oh no I'm a 4 life's over, why try, boo hoo, cry 4 mee" when in reality, everyone can become at least 2-3 more points attractive through better fitting clothes, style, hygiene/skincare etc, and most importantly being interesting and confident.

Talk about CAP. Not everyone can go 2 points up like you did, you were sleeping on your genetic silver spoon and didn't realize it. I can't say the same, I've put in an equal amount if not more effort than you and it led nowhere to the same success.

Funny you mention that example to display the chip on your shoulder... the two dudes I know who pull better than anyone else are both < 5'6", I'm 6'2" and couldn't even imagine pulling like they do. And yes, one of them is Asian. Does that make you feel better?

OF COURSE, you know some wild anomaly that you would try and use to disprove my experience. Just cause some guys win the lottery doesn't make it the norm.

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