Lack of intimacy, looking for thoughts and resources...

The “roommate” feeling is somewhat normal as relationships find s comfortable ground and you lose the “spark” that made it new or exciting. My wife and myself have sex less frequently than we used to but she would never shun any touches as we are still very much in love. If you can’t connect with her on an emotional or physical level then Reddit opinions will not be suffice.

I would highly recommend marriage counselling, and/or personal counselling.

You seem to want to fix the problem. Definetly try going that route. You fought long and hard to get to this point and no one wants to throw that away.

Do you want to live the rest of your life the way it is now? Ask yourself.

Then look into some steps in trying to bring about change that makes you both happy.

Counselling is definitely in the cards for you.

/r/Marriage Thread